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Forward Friday: Practical Steps for Finding Rest with Gratitude, Contentment, and Healthy Limits





Here’s how to weave gratitude, contentment, boundaries, and digital wisdom into your pursuit of rest this holiday season:


1. Practice a Gratitude Pause

  • What to Do: Before bed or during a busy moment, pause and thank God for three specific blessings in your day.

  • Why It Works: Gratitude shifts your focus to God’s goodness, quieting stress and fostering peace.

  • Tie to Rest: Gratitude replaces striving with trust, making space for meaningful rest.


2. Simplify Holiday Expectations

  • What to Do: Choose a few meaningful traditions or activities, letting go of the pressure to do it all.

  • Why It Works: Simplifying reduces stress and helps you find joy in the moment.

  • Biblical Tie: Contentment in simplicity reflects the peace Paul describes in Philippians 4:11-13.


3. Set Technology-Free Zones

  • What to Do: Designate specific times or spaces in your home—like family meals or an hour before bed—as tech-free zones.

  • Why It Works: Limiting digital distractions restores mental and relational clarity.

  • Biblical Tie: Psalm 46:10 calls us to “be still” before God, something digital stillness supports.


4. Protect Your Calendar with Boundaries

  • What to Do: Say “no” to commitments that don’t align with your priorities or values. Schedule downtime as intentionally as any holiday event.

  • Why It Works: Protecting your time ensures you have space for reflection, connection, and rest.

  • Biblical Tie: Proverbs 4:23 reminds us to guard our hearts, which includes guarding our time.


5. Reframe Social Media Use

  • What to Do: Use social media as a tool for encouragement and connection rather than comparison or validation. Limit usage to intentional moments.

  • Why It Works: Reducing comparison frees you to focus on gratitude and contentment.

  • Biblical Tie: Ephesians 4:29 encourages words and actions that build others up, even in digital spaces.


6. Embrace God’s Gift of Sabbath Rest

  • What to Do: Set aside a day—or even a few hours—to rest from work and reconnect with God through prayer, worship, or nature.

  • Why It Works: Intentional Sabbath time replenishes your spirit and prepares you for the week ahead.

  • Biblical Tie: Exodus 20:8-10 reminds us that God calls us to keep the Sabbath holy, a sacred rhythm of work and rest.


By integrating gratitude, contentment, boundaries, and digital wisdom into your life, you can approach the holiday season with balance and peace. Rest isn’t a luxury—it’s a spiritual discipline that honors God and renews your ability to love and serve others. Take time to pause, reflect, and rest in His presence this season.


Here are some ideas to get you started:

  • How do you currently create space for rest during the holiday season? What’s one change you could make to find more balance?

  • In what ways do gratitude and contentment help you feel more at peace during busy times?

  • What boundaries have you found helpful for protecting your time and energy during the holidays?

  • How do you navigate social media during the holidays? What steps could you take to prevent comparison and focus on connection?

  • Reflect on your Sabbath or rest practices—what’s one thing you could do this week to honor God by prioritizing rest?

  • Which of the strategies from Forward Friday resonates with you most? How can you implement it in your life today?

 
 
 

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